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Infidelity Investigations: Catching the Cheater
When we accept an infidelity case, we request:
- Information about the suspected cheater’s habits, work schedule, days off and so forth.
- Photographs of the suspected cheater (and the suspected girlfriend/boyfriend, if available)
- Addresses and phone numbers (for the suspected cheater’s home, businesses, other places of note as well as the addresses/phone numbers for suspected girlfriend/boyfriend, if known)
- Any known routes suspected cheater takes on way to work, home, to exercise gym and so forth
- Vehicle descriptions, license plate numbers for suspected cheater (and suspected girlfriend/boyfriend)
- Contact information for client, preferred times to call, private numbers person can be reached at, preferred means of contact (work email, cell phone).
- Any other pertinent information.
As with any other case, we then devise an investigative strategy. Sometimes the client will call and inform us if the suspected cheater has changed his/her work schedule, is taking off for a surprise appointment or other event. We can’t always comply with last-minute schedule changes (which we’ve made clear to the client up front) but if time permits, we do.
Part of our contract is that we’ll provide reports on either a biweekly or monthly basis. However, we’ll work with the client on a different report scheme as long as it’s appropriate, workable and legal. For example, we’ve had clients who like to call periodically and discuss the case. We don’t mind discussing the current progress on a case as long as the client remains professional and courteous. Sometimes a client might request an email update the morning after an evening surveillance, and we’re happy to comply.
The most difficult thing we’re ever had to do was tell a client that we had garnered photographic evidence that her husband was being unfaithful. It had been a lengthy investigation (several months) and the husband (who had a background in military investigations) had covered his tracks exceptionally well, so well we believed her suspicions were unfounded. We had scheduled one last surveillance, which she asked us to continue doing, and after that we mutually agreed to terminate the investigations.
It was during that very last surveillance that we saw, and photographed, his infidelity. The wife’s suspicions of his infidelity had been right on — he was involved with her best friend. We finished the surveillance, did a wrap-up meeting where we discussed how to present the evidence to the client, then we made the call. The client immediately wanted to know if her husband and her girlfriend were still at the location where they’d been photographed. We explained the husband and girlfriend had already left the scene, but we had photographic evidence that we would forward in a report.
We’ve since talked to this client and learned that after being confronted with the evidence, he admitted to the affair, and they are now in marriage counseling. This was a happy ending. More often, a client’s next call to us is requesting a recommendation for a good divorce lawyer.
PI Wise: Except in only a few cases, a PI shouldn’t contact a client while the investigation is in process. Especially in a cheating spouse case, a PI never tells a client, in real time, where her/his spouse is in flagrante delicto. Remember the woman who ran over her philandering husband three times in the Texas parking lot? That’s because the PI she’d hired to follow her husband called from the hotel where he was rendezvousing with his mistress and reported the infidelity in real time. Wifey, enraged, drove over and…let’s just say if the PI hadn’t made that call, wifey might not now be spending years behind bars.
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